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The Things Prayer Changes!


Winter had been long and cold that year.  Looking back, it had been pretty bleak as well.  At least for the Kelly’s and their closest friends.  The diagnosis had been simple enough for Wendell—Esophageal Ulcer.  All Wendell had known was that it hurt when he ate.  And Wendell loved to eat.

The doctors had promised Wendell and his wife of thirty-five years a routine surgery followed by a few long overdue dietary changes and then, life could return to normal.  Cecile could hardly remember “normal.”  Wendell had driven the two-hours it took to get to the hospital and then he and Cecile took a walk from the parking garage to the registration desk.  It’s funny how you never know when or where your last walk will be.

“Sometimes this happens,” was all the doctor could say to comfort Cecile after the surgery.  There didn’t seem to be a lot of urgency, but on the other hand, you are supposed to “wake up.”  Wendell’s vital signs were good, but he wouldn’t respond to any stimuli.  He just laid there with his eyes taped shut.  Cecile began making long distance phone calls from the hospital’s courtesy phone.  She hadn’t planned to stay in Lubbock more than one night and wasn’t sure what to do.

The doctors had informed Cecile that if Wendell didn’t wake up in the first 24 hours, it was likely that he would suffer brain damage.  36 hours later, they were informing Cecile and friends that if Wendell didn’t wake up in 48 hours, the likely hood was that he wouldn’t at all.

Wendell and Cecile were core members of their church.  Wendell was a deacon.  Cecile was the unofficial church decorator.  She also worked with either the children’s ministry or in the nursery.  They were avid youth group sponsors that could always be counted on to take trips with the youth.

As you might expect, the church had placed Wendell on the prayer list way back before he had even been diagnosed.  Just a little pain in the upper chest that increased upon swallowing.  Now, the many friends were beginning to unofficially pray around the clock.  A week into the ordeal, there was no longer any medical hope, and yet the church continued to pray, asking for a miracle from the Creator.

Why does God allow the things that happen, to happen?  We won’t be able to fully answer that this side of Heaven, but once in while, we hear of a true miracle that gives us hope and keeps us praying.  On a Sunday morning, exactly one month after the surgery, Wendell and CeCele’s pastor veered off the scheduled order of events after the opening hymn.  He asked for the congregation to come to the front of the church and kneel before God and pray.  He gave them a portion of Scripture to dwell on as they did this:  Numbers 14:11-20.

The people came to the front, knelt and one by one, or several at a time, offered up prayers on behalf of Wendell.  Finally, at 12:15, the pastor stood and without a sermon, gave the final dismal prayer.  He, and others, went home exhausted.  The time in Lubbock was 1:15 in the afternoon.

At 1:00, the pastor’s wife received a phone call from Cecile Kelly.  Cecile called to report that at 45 minutes earlier, (1:15 in Lubbock) Wendell opened his eyes and began to make gagging noises as he tried to communicate.  The nurses rushed in and began removing feeding tubes, allowing a very weakened Wendell to speak.  His first words:  “Can I have a steak now?”

They laughed   . . . .  and cried . . . . . and hugged and brought him soup.  Wendell had no idea that he had been in a coma for a month. To him, he had simply woke from surgery.  Wendell had lost a lot of weight, and his road back to full health would still be a long journey.  But several years later, Wendell and his Wife Cecile officially retired and moved to Lubbock.

And the people that were present in that very special church service remain changed to this day, having been in the very real presence of a holy God.  Prayer changes things.  But when we truly pray, believing all that there is to believe in, then we often find that the things prayer changes most . . . . is us.

Prayer From a Different Point of View


In John 1:1-14, we are told that Jesus Christ was God in the beginning–and remains God today. He was God in Heaven long before events unfolded in the lives of two weary travelers who arrived at a sold-out inn in Bethlehem to celebrate the first Christmas. And He emptied Himself of His glory to become a man (see Philippians 2:7-8). This does not mean that Jesus stopped being God, but that for a period of time, became nothing special in the eyes of men. He was born as an un-welcomed out-of-town guest and his first bed had been a feed trough for hungry sheep just moments before.

While growing up and living as one of us, Jesus looked nothing at all like a god. But Jesus was not only God’s Son, but somehow He was also God at the same time (at this point, it would be good to delve into a study of the Trinity, but alas, that point is not our point).

This article is about prayer from Jesus’ perspective. Think about this: Jesus was perfect as a man, He was the Son of God and He was God, Himself. So what did Jesus spend a great deal of time doing? Praying. Jesus prayed . . . a lot! Often all night long. How long do you spend in prayer?  And if you study the Gospels, you’ll find that Jesus spent a lot of time communicating with us, but when He prayed, He talked with His Father.

We might be tempted to ask the question at this point, why did Jesus need to pray–being perfect and being God? At the root of at least part of the answer, we will find a new understanding of part of what prayer is. The apostle, John, gives us a great glimpse at the personal interaction between Jesus and the Father in John 17.

As Jesus prayed in the garden that night, He continued to waste no opportunity to continue to teach. As Jesus was praying, the disciples were listening (at least until they fell asleep). And so Jesus prayed to the Father while teaching the disciples at the same time–and through the gospel of John . . . . us. So what did He teach us? Some pretty important stuff! In verses 2 and 3, Jesus tells us that He has been given the authority to grant eternal life, and then He tells us what it is. He said, eternal life is knowing God and knowing Jesus. A lot of people that attend church, and some who don’t, know about Jesus. But Jesus teaches us that Eternal life is much, much more than know about Jesus Christ. Eternal life is a love relationship between Jesus and us! That love relationship is expressed in obedience, in worship and in prayer.

Jesus’ prayers were certainly petitions on His behalf as well as on our behalf. He prayed for Himself. He prayed for us. But His prayer sounds a little bit like a soldiers letter home to tell his parents that he’s almost through with his tour and will be home soon. He expresses His concerns. He states His desires for His disciples. And He expresses His love to the Father.

And therein lies at least one of the biggest reasons for prayer. Not the petitions, but the expression of our love. When we have a relationship that is worth while in our lives, whether it be with a spouse, a child, a parent or a friend, we know that we need to spend time with them in order to maintain the relationship. Jesus did not pray because He needed to. He prayed because He wanted to. His sole desire was to do the Father’s will and maintain a love relationship with Him.

We need to learn to pray out of a desire to spend time with Jesus, not just because we have a “shopping list.” It’s certainly okay to ask for things. Jesus tells us to do that, but too often, that’s all we do.

Prayer is our intimate expression of love to and from the Father. Let’s pray!